Wedding Plans

Anyone who has ever planned a wedding knows that weddings have a way of taking on a life of their own.  You picture a small wedding of family and friends and being able to tell that one person you love more then anything you want to spend the rest of your life with.  But what really happens is you have to invite everyone's brother's cousin, you have to deal with every relatives impression of what they envision,   try to please everyone around and between the flowers, cake and all the other details you get swallowed up whole but the planning.  For most of us, our weddings were one of the most stressful times of our lives.  When it comes to actually recalling the actual wedding, we only recall bits and pieces.  If I had to do it again, I would probably elope to some tropical island and have very few guests if any.

So I can kind of see why we have seen medianet pics of Jason and Sam getting married away from all the craziness.  While I really wanted her to get married in her dress and them to elope to Hawaii, I have faith this wedding will be something special.  We were warned by GW, that their wedding would be anything but traditional, so we should not expect any traditional wedding details.  But I have watched and listened, Sam has asked for a proper wedding with her family present.  So I hope no matter what next week has in store for us, Jason and Sam both get what they want. 

Most importantly, I know we have all waited since 2004 for this wedding so no matter what our expectations are extremely high of the event.  No matter what happens, I am sure we will be happy.  But all of us as fans have our own expectations of the event.  Lets try to remember this isn't our wedding, this is theirs.  If they want to get married at a Chinese restaurant both wearing jeans and in their normal black attire, we just need to be happy this is finally happening.

Let's try to keep the faith and wait to see how this all plays out.  I know, I too have some hefty expectations of the event.  But lets try to be positive and keep the faith.  Our couple if FINALLY GETTING MARRIED.  Let's be happy and not try to pick apart how it is done.   We have waited 7 years for this to happen.